Why Do Guys Pull Away?

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Ever had that frustrating experience of losing your partner because you feel even a little bit of of distance forming between you both? If that is the case you are not by yourself. Countless ladies experience this each day in their relationships, particularly when they think the relationship is going so well.

Are men just looking for sex? Are men just in it for the chase and once the thrill of the chase is gone the relationship goes cold?

Why do guys pull away in the first place?

Here’s some advice for when he’s emotionally unavailable.

In most situations, it truly has nothing at all to do with you. It’s not because he’s losing interest in you. It’s not because you’re not turning him on any longer and somebody better stole him away from you.

So if it is not for those reasons,what’s a lady to do if she experiences her guy is pulling farther away from her?

First you must understand that ladies and men are not the same when it comes to emotions and feelings. It is not because men do not experience feelings or are afraid of emotional connection.

It is due to the fact women and men are genetically programed differently.

Think about the caveman times when so as to survive, men needed to be predominantly attentive, focused and goal-driven. They needed these types of traits to survive the harsh environment.

That is to say that a man’s attention is extremely focused.

When he appears to pull away emotionally, it typically has not got anything to do with you in any way. It generally is just his own attention that’s being taken to something else… Whether that be his work, his passion, or some other distraction.

This really isn’t something that you need to be worried about usually.

You do not have to try to compete for his attention. In fact doing that will usually make him feel contempt you for that.

From another viewpoint if you give him the space that he is looking for to be able to figure out whatever he is thinking on, then there’s a significantly chance that when he is done with it, he’ll come back to you, giving you all the attention that you are searching for.

This could seem counter-intuitive, but you want to keep in mind that men are fundamentally genetically wired differently from women and thus they act and think differently.

A guy needs to feel that you are giving him the room he wants to be a man and go after his mission in life. Anything less and he is going to feel smothered and will view you as more of a burden rather than something beneficial in his life. When this happens, the relationship begins to experience som issues.

But what if you still can’t get that deep, juicy connection you’re looking for?

I know what it’s like to feel like you are stuck in a hopeless relationship where you don’t feel connected. If you want your relationship to work in the long run, you need to learn this simple to use tipthat works amazingly well.

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